Win a Free Spot at Reignite!

Thanks to a generous donor, we’ll able to offer one couple a free standard suite at Reignite, PLUS $1500 worth of travel credit. The contest closes on April 3, 2022 at 9:00 am ET — so submit your entry now.

Our donor has directed that the sponsored spot should go to a couple that includes at least one woman of color. If that doesn’t apply to you, pass this on to a friend!

Winter 2021 Merch

Winter merch is now available for pre-ordering (and ready-to-ship orders, too!). With an emphasis on cozy things, this merch drop will get you through those chilly winter nights. All of the items are very limited in stock, so snag your sizes while you can!

Texas’ SB8 is a test case for the rest of us. No matter where you live in the US, abortion access is being threatened.

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College Workshops

Want to bring shame-free, queer-inclusive sex ed to your college campus? Click here to learn more & reach out.

“Cassandra’s workshops are life-changing. I recommend them to everybody and I am so thankful that I have the opportunity to be involved with them! Thank you!”

— Student, Bryn Mawr College, Fall 2020

Upcoming Online Workshops

My next upcoming online workshop is Cultivating Sexual Pleasure. It’ll be held on September 11 at 1:00 pm ET. Tickets and more info are available here.

Recorded Workshops

Want to take time to learn on your own? Many of my past workshops are available as recordings. You’ll receive viewing access within 48 hours of placing your order.

You Deserve Good Sex

In 2020, I partnered with Rewire News Group to create You Deserve Good Sex, a 12-episode YouTube series. You can watch all 12 episodes here.

Coaching and 1:1 Education

Have a question about sex or sexuality that you’d prefer to discuss in a dedicated, focused space? Private consultations or ongoing coaching may be good options for you.

These services are educational in nature; you will have space to ask questions in a dynamic, conversational way, and you’ll be provided with post-session resources when appropriate. Private consultations are not a substitute for therapy, and if in our initial call I feel that my skill set isn’t a good fit for your needs or that it may be more appropriate to approach these issues with a therapist, I will refer you. Private consultations are also not assisted sex services.

Book an intro call here

Blog & Reviews

Want more long-form content and product reviews? Visit the blog.

Latest post: A Review of Five Different Lovehoney Lingerie Sets [Read Here]

Join Book Club

There are a few spots open in both the Thursday and Saturday book clubs! You can find more info here.

If you prefer the meeting-free version of book club where you don’t receive a physical book, you can join the Patreon book club here.


From stickers to shirts, I make merch to help you show off your shame-free, pleasure-positive self! Merch sales help me provide barrier methods for free to folks who need them.

Explore the store here.

I’ve just restocked all prints, too!