Hey there, Sweet Briar! Thank you so much for making time to learn with me this semester. I’ve enjoyed getting to know you and exploring these topics together! Your recordings & resources are all available below. While the recordings will expire 30 days after the event, the resources will continue to be available here. If you have any questions, feel free to email me at Info@CassandraCorrado.com.

Resources & Recordings

They’ll be added here after each event! Scroll down to see everything. Captions on the video are autogenerated and you may have to click to watch in YouTube for them to appear.

Event 1: Sex in Translation

Online resources:

  1. Some conflict resolution basics from Scarleteen
  2. Setting boundaries information, by Love Is Respect
  3. Love Languages quiz 
  4. Conflict style quiz
  5. Autostraddle’s Yes/No/Maybe list for sexy time
  6. We Should Try It’s Yes/No/Maybe quiz (digital) (also the company that makes the Spicer app)
  7. MojoUpgrade’s Yes/No/Maybe quiz (digital)
  8. YDGS: How to Figure Out What You Like in Bed
  9. YDGS: How to Tell Your Partner What You Like in Bed
  10. Al Vernacchio’s Pizza & Baseball Video

Books: 

  1. Tongue Tied by Stella Harris
  2. Sex-Positive Talks to Have with Kids by Melissa Pintor-Carnagey

Other resources:

Event 2: Playing Safely

Online resources:

Cool Places to Find Sex Toys

DISCLOSURE: Many of these toy links are affiliate links, meaning if you buy something from that site, I may receive a small commission. I only recommend toys that I think you’ll like, but you’re always free to browse incognito if you’d prefer!

Event 3: For Pleasure’s Sake

ForPleasuresSake-SBC22 by clcorrado
  1. Trans Bodies, Trans Selves (currently: $39)
  2. S.E.X., second edition (currently: $17) 
  3. Our Bodies, Ourselves (currently: $21)
  4. Dating & Sex: A Guide for the 21st Century Teen Boy (currently: $13)
  5. Come As You Are (currently: $13)
  6. GIRL: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You (currently: $12)
  7. Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It (currently: $12)
  8. The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability (currently: $14)
  9. Vibrator Nation: How Feminist Sex Toy Stores Changed the Business of Pleasure (currently: $18)
  10. Healing Painful Sex (currently: $18)
  11. When Sex Hurts (currently: $16)
  12. Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma (currently: $18)

Online Resources:

  1. Bedsider’s Birth Control Method Explorer
  2. Dangerous Lilly’s Guide to Toxic Toys
  3. Bad Vibes: What’s In Your Lube
  4. NURX
  5. We Should Try It (sexual interests survey)
  6. My YouTube series: You Deserve Good Sex
  7. &Jane Audio Erotica
  8. Dipsea Stories Audio Erotica
  9. Pink & White Productions

A Bunch of Other Things: 

  1. Find your nearest HIV testing location  
  2. Find your closest Planned Parenthood
  3. Find a polyam-friendly therapist
  4. Find an LGBTQ-friendly doctor
  5. Lucky Bloke (condom sampler packs)
  6. Kate Kenfield’s Tea & Empathy Cards
  7. The Sex Talk Game
  8. One Condoms MyOne Program (find your condom fit)

Cool Places to Find Sex Toys

  1. Good Vibrations (affiliate link)
  2. Smitten Kitten
  3. Babeland (this is an affiliate link, so if you make a purchase, I may get a small commission)
  4. Come As You Are (Canada)
  5. Self Serve Toys
  6. She Bop
  7. Sugar
  8. Good For Her (Canada)
  9. Spectrum Boutique (affiliate link)
  10. Enby (affiliate link — get an extra 10% off with code FEMINISTSEXED)
  11. Sliquid (save 20% with code EDU20)
  12. Uberlube

Event 4: Supporting Survivors

This video will expire May 21, 2022.
SupportingSurvivors-SweetBriar2022 by clcorrado

Online resources:

  1. The RAINN sexual violence hotline (livechat, phone, or mobile app)
  2. Pandora’s Project (an online resource and support space for survivors and their loved ones)
  3. Some conflict resolution basics from Scarleteen
  4. The Scarleteen safety plan
  5. Setting boundaries information, by Love Is Respect
  6. The NSVRC’s directory of organizations*
  7. PCAR’s guide to supporting survivors of sexual violence
  8. The NDV Hotline’s guide to supporting survivors of partner abuse
  9. The National Domestic Violence Hotline’s guide to safety planning
  10. Forge’s log of recorded webinars (mostly for providers) (for trans survivors)
  11. Forge’s guides for survivors and people who support them (for trans survivors)

Books: 

  1. Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma 
  2. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Sexual Trauma (Note: I do NOT recommend this book for people newly processing their trauma, as it includes case studies describing various types of traumatic incidents)
  3. The Survivor’s Guide to Sex
  4. Trauma Stewardship (this book is helpful for those who also working in ‘helping’ roles where they’re interacting with other people’s trauma)
  5. Not On My Watch by Isabella Rotman (bystander intervention guide — free ebook)

A bunch of other things: 

  1. Find your nearest HIV testing location  
  2. Find your closest Planned Parenthood
  3. Find an LGBTQ-friendly doctor